Should I Move In Together?
How long have you been together?
⏳Slow Down. Enjoy Having Your Own Space.
Have you done a trip together (3+ days)?
Why do you want to move in?
How do they handle mess and chores?
✈️Take a Trip Together First. 72 Hours Reveals All.
Have you talked about splitting costs?
💸Bad Reason. Move In Because You Want To, Not To Save.
🤔Convenience Isn't Commitment. Make Sure You Mean It.
🧹Have the Chore Conversation First. Seriously.
🔑Do It. You've Done the Homework.
💬Have the Money Talk. Then Decide.
A
Under 6 months
B
6 months – 1 year
C
1+ years
A
Yes, survived it
B
No, not yet
A
We're ready, next step
B
Save money on rent
C
Lease is ending, convenient
A
We're compatible
B
They're way messier
C
Never noticed
A
Yes, we have a plan
B
Vaguely
C
No
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How long have you been together?

  • Under 6 months
  • 6 months – 1 year
  • 1+ years

⏳ Slow Down. Enjoy Having Your Own Space.

Have you done a trip together (3+ days)?

  • Yes, survived it
  • No, not yet

Why do you want to move in?

  • We're ready, next step
  • Save money on rent
  • Lease is ending, convenient

How do they handle mess and chores?

  • We're compatible
  • They're way messier
  • Never noticed

✈️ Take a Trip Together First. 72 Hours Reveals All.

Have you talked about splitting costs?

  • Yes, we have a plan
  • Vaguely
  • No

💸 Bad Reason. Move In Because You Want To, Not To Save.

🤔 Convenience Isn't Commitment. Make Sure You Mean It.

🧹 Have the Chore Conversation First. Seriously.

🔑 Do It. You've Done the Homework.

💬 Have the Money Talk. Then Decide.

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